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Originally Posted By MarthaI am 31 and undergoing the first of infertility treatments. My 16 yr old neice has just learned she is pregnant and is beside herself. She has no way to care for the child. Boyfriend is desserting her. The family as a whole is interested in the idea of my husband and myself adopting the baby. Can anyone offer advice, (pros/cons).
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At first I thought wow how lucky then it set in If my nephew cause I dont have a neice were to be in a situation at 16 I am very close with him and see him just about everyday he would know we would make wounderful parents however I couldnt imagine him having to see his child with us daily and having the child believe he were is cousin that is very stressful and asking alot of him,even though we want so much to adopt and he know's this.I think if we told him I knew of a family that could offer your child everthing that your not able to he would be more at ease with that. I hope you were able to follow me and I'm sure you will do what's best for all of you best of luck on your journey from Dee
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