Can a hospital interfer with an adoption?

Originally Posted By NicoleThe day my son was born BM called me and told me to follow her to the hospital so I would not have any problems getting in. While there the hospital social worker pulled me outside of the maternity ward and proceeded to tell me adoptive parents are not allowed in the hospital until the baby is discharged. I proceeded to cry and tell him that it was not right and I knew she had the right to change her mind. He then proceeded to yell at me in the hallway, "she needs to know what she wants". I told him I knew she had the right to change her mind, after a few moments I proceeded to go in the maternity ward to get my daughters older sister(that is another story)and he screamed at me do not go in there, you are not allowed, I was'nt even allowed to say goodbye to the woman who was going to give me her child. I proceeded to leave the hospital crying my eyes out. I could'nt believe what had happened to me. I could'nt even be in the lobby. I was told the day my son was discharged not even to go in the hospital. For six days I was denied access to my son or even to bond with his BM, which I feel is important(we adopted before and I was close to my daughters BM).I would like any comments on this horrible incident, Thank You.