i am not angry, i just need closure.

Originally Posted By AmyI wish I could say I did understand. What do you hope to accomplish? Do you think you are going to find someone wonderful from someone that left you in a trash can. You said you were adopted by a wonderful family. I think in your search to find closure you may find you had it all along. God gave you your "parents" for a reason. That blood is thicker than water is crap. I am all for family is all that matters. Hug and kiss your mom and dad for giving you a life instead of dwelling on the woman that gave you life by giving birth.

Originally Posted By maxineHello, Don't feel like your missing out on anything in life because you never met your parents. I am a life long foster child never adopted. I went on a search for my mom come to find her passed away never met her and have two siblings that are older than I am no fathers name on the birth certificate. My mom has all the answers and she is gone so what do we do? Just accept the way it is and know that it is the way it is for a reason. No one knows the reason but there is a reason for everything just believe in the lord and all will be well for you have faith in god and god will lead you to what he wants for you. Sometimes there is no closures or answers for the things that happen to us in life and no one promised us a rose garden just know that you are the one that the lord chose for this road and don't ask why just know that your a great person and do what you can for others because someone gave you all they could. Hold your head high and don't let anything get you down because we only live once and what goes around comes around. Know that god loves you and move on yes it hurts at times but one day you will be with all those who truly love you. YOU HAVE BEEN BLESSED YOU ARE STILL HERE JUST THANK THE ONE THAT BROUGHT YOU TO WHERE YOU ARE EVERY CHANCE YOU GET BECAUSE NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO IF ITS NOT MEANT TO BE ITS NOT GOING TO BE.MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALWAYS.