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I have posted on this board since 1999 but have been searching for my daughter since 1975 and I wanted to share what I have recently found out with this board, so nobody ever loses hope!
She has my "relinquishing paperwork" with all my identifying information on it! Her birthday was 11/27/1974 and needless to say we spent 11/27 this year online all day long and I was estatic! I have been on an emotional roller coaster to say the least, but thanking God right now is helping me through it all. We are going to take this process at "her pace" not mine. Every decision made will be a mutally agreed decision and we're going to take it one day at a time.
I am so happy I could burst! I'm not getting ahead of myself either....she's just got too much info on me that her adoptive father gave her before he passed away. I love that man soooo much right now and never even met him!
It just so happened she posted the day before her birthday and had only had her computer one week. I was searching the boards and found her post.
Everyone...keep searching these posts! From the happiest bmom in the world...I am praying for the best for both of us. She is a sweetheart and even though I have hurt so bad the last 28 years from all this, my heart is going to heal and so is hers!
Thank you AdoptionForums.com....for everything!
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I have posted on this board since 1999 but have been searching for my daughter since 1975 and I wanted to share what I have recently found out with this board, so nobody ever loses hope!
She has my "relinquishing paperwork" with all my identifying information on it! Her birthday was 11/27/1974 and needless to say we spent 11/27 this year online all day long and I was estatic! I have been on an emotional roller coaster to say the least, but thanking God right now is helping me through it all. We are going to take this process at "her pace" not mine. Every decision made will be a mutally agreed decision and we're going to take it one day at a time.
I am so happy I could burst! I'm not getting ahead of myself either....she's just got too much info on me that her adoptive father gave her before he passed away. I love that man soooo much right now and never even met him!
It just so happened she posted the day before her birthday and had only had her computer one week. I was searching the boards and found her post.
Everyone...keep searching these posts! From the happiest bmom in the world...I am praying for the best for both of us. She is a sweetheart and even though I have hurt so bad the last 28 years from all this, my heart is going to heal and so is hers!
Thank you AdoptionForums.com....for everything!
This turned out to be a person who was trying to scam me somehow. She was very cruel about the entire thing and based all of her information on what I had posted and it turned out she had nothing "else" to prove she was my daughter. So, needless to say, this was not a case of finding my daughter - but merely a case of a sick mental person messing on this message forum. Be very careful what you say here and keep some of the identifying information to yourself until you know more about the person.
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Wow Dakota, scammers are so cruel to do that and must have way too much time on their hands. I am sorry.
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How horrible, I cannot wrap my head around what kind of thrill or satisfaction any scammer can possibly get. How sick. I am sorry you have gone through that. Scammers who do this kind of thing(along with those who scam PAPs) are the cruelest breed of people.
I noticed that your original post is quite old, how long did this sick charade go one before you found out this was a scam? I only ask because in reunion we are basically reuniting with "strangers", all we have to go on is basic information like dates of birth locations, ect. I would imagine a really sick person with a little creativity could stretch this out for a long period of time.
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I have posted on this board since 1999 but have been searching for my daughter since 1975 and I wanted to share what I have recently found out with this board, so nobody ever loses hope!
She has my "relinquishing paperwork" with all my identifying information on it! Her birthday was 11/27/1974 and needless to say we spent 11/27 this year online all day long and I was estatic! I have been on an emotional roller coaster to say the least, but thanking God right now is helping me through it all. We are going to take this process at "her pace" not mine. Every decision made will be a mutally agreed decision and we're going to take it one day at a time.
I am so happy I could burst! I'm not getting ahead of myself either....she's just got too much info on me that her adoptive father gave her before he passed away. I love that man soooo much right now and never even met him!
It just so happened she posted the day before her birthday and had only had her computer one week. I was searching the boards and found her post.
Everyone...keep searching these posts! From the happiest bmom in the world...I am praying for the best for both of us. She is a sweetheart and even though I have hurt so bad the last 28 years from all this, my heart is going to heal and so is hers!
Thank you AdoptionForums.com....for everything!
I don't know why this wasn't removed when I requested it to be. This person turned out to be a "Scammer" and drug me through the mud. "Poohbear" is also known as "SweetAngel" and she is very dangerous to any birth parent she contacts. BEWARE - She is not my daughter, never was, but pretended to be and she will do it again. It's my understanding she did it to quite a few women - I wasn't the only one she played her game with! I did not ever have a "reunion" with her - just online conversations that led to tears, regrets, anger and hurt.
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How horrible, I cannot wrap my head around what kind of thrill or satisfaction any scammer can possibly get. How sick. I am sorry you have gone through that. Scammers who do this kind of thing(along with those who scam PAPs) are the cruelest breed of people.
I noticed that your original post is quite old, how long did this sick charade go one before you found out this was a scam? I only ask because in reunion we are basically reuniting with "strangers", all we have to go on is basic information like dates of birth locations, ect. I would imagine a really sick person with a little creativity could stretch this out for a long period of time.
EZ
I was contacted by her not long after my original posting and she kept me dangling on a string for months. She is known as "Poohbear" and also "SweetAngel". Beware of anyone that contacts you - I kept asking for her to fax me documentation that she stated she had from her adoptive parents about me and she never did - always had an excuse. Sad part is I was so vulnerable I believed everything she told me. As it turned out I realized that most of what she had said to me was actually written in my original post, but I was so estatic when she contacted me that I didn't realize it. I went through a very hard time emotionally and mentally and if I could have ever found her, I would have had her prosecuted!
Just be very careful if somebody contacts you. If they say they have information about "YOU" - ask them to fax it to you. If they don't have anything on paper - just words - be very careful. I would hate for any other birthmom to go through what I did. It almost killed me.
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