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Can a birthmother if seperated but still legally married place her unborn child up for adoption without the birthfathers consent?
In July of 2002 my husband held our 8 month old daughter out the window of our second floor apartment and threatened to drop her. Since then we have seperated and filed for divorce.
I am strongly considering placing our unborn child up for adoption.
Does the fact that he has child endangerment charges filed against him automatically terminate his parental rights? By law,does he even have a say in the matter?
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I have a cousin, who's husband had his rights taken away from him (after abusin their son.) She had to choose between child and husband. At first she chose child, they got a divorce. But then the state found out that she was letting him come over. So her rights were also terminated, and the child was placed in foster care, and later adopted. They got re-married, had a second child together. And it was as if their slate were wiped clean. (My cousin passed away when the 2nd child was only 2 years old, and no one stepped in at that time, either....now she is getting passed back and forth between him and her grandparents.)
So, most likely, he will have rights. (Unless as boxer stated, he is to have no contact with any minor.) The state and CPS seem to give parents tons of chances, at times. Sometimes too many.
If you DO want to do an adoption plan...in some states they allow the birthfather to sign over right before the baby is born. If you are afraid that he will not do this, you could consider getting a lawyer.
I don't know...I really hope that it all works for the best!
Stephanie
Generally speaking, "legal" fathers (i.e., those who have fathered children born of a marriage) must consent to an adoption.
(I say "generally") because nothing is true 100% of the time.) I am not aware of any situation where a father's rights are automatically terminated, no matter what he is charged with.
Also, generally speaking, a legal father cannot sign away his parental rights prior to the birth of the child.
Be sure you are working with an experienced adoption attorney, and be sure you tell the attorney all the facts.
Good luck!
Linda Lach
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You are married and that gives him rights.
It sucks but it's true.
Even though he has charges agianst him it doesn't terminate his rights from the unborn child.
Even if he wasn't the bio-father of the unborn child if you are married when child is born it legally becomes his child.
If you contact an adoption agency they have a legal department that could file the papers to terminate his rights but it must be done before the birth.
If you wait tell after the baby is born and he still refuses to sign his rights away. Then he will have to abandon the child for 2 yrs before you can terminate rights, or be convicted to a sentence of 2 yrs or more.