The OC mommie brawl

Forever Family.....yeah flowers....boohoo for open house. Yeah... sell house and move into the house you love.....then hubby carries you over the threashold and buys you flowers again for no reason WEEEE! Yippeee for Eli and your fam....all sounds well. Hugs to Eli's bmom, but I am sure oneday she will know what a wonderful home he is in and be so glad you are raising him. Ok....I read Tudu's blog and Paula's and well all my online mommie friends had a sucky Mother's day. Now I feel like a putz :-) Paula......you (and any of my online friends) are always welcome in LA I would love to have lunch. I think pizza and pasta are the culinary middle grounds....they are veggie cross over foods into the carnie world. Which saves you from Tofu and Tempeh... So PIZZA! and wine....definitely wine...Hello! See not healthy at all.... :-) But if you want healthy....I can talk healthy sista! And I could hook you up with some AWESOME textured vegtable protein....just puttin' it out there :-) Ok random note: Hey Marciella :-) Hope your kiddo (who is SUCH A BEAUTY....I might add) had a great 4th birthday. I think I forgot to post that like a few weeks ago.....so random and weird, but I'm giving you a shout out....:-) Ok...THE OC MOMMIE BRAWL! I have been taking my mom down to the OC to have some tests for her operation on Tuesday. And I have to say again I LOVE MY HEALTHY MOM!!!! We are so much better and have so much more fun when she is not a bipolar freak head and she admits, she ruined my life....NICE! So we have kissed and made up. Aria was funky with some funky green stuff coming out of her eyes, ailien poo and a fever so I took her with us and held her back from day care.....Mini rant: Kiddo at daycare gets my kiddo sick, then I hold my kiddo out and STILL HAVE TO PAY A FULL DAY.....sucky not fairness!!!!! Grrrrr! Anyway the only place to go while my mom has like 5 hours of tests is the OC mall. Not a place I am fond of in the slightest. On Tuesday I was so excited to see, however, 2 toystores and a play area. And all the rich blonde people where REALLY nice to me and kiddo.....hello??? what happened to B!tchy closed minded-racially one-noted OC????? I'm thinking, while I am still not a fan....I am a happy visitor. Thanks OC. So today, we reprise the mall....kiddo LOVES walking around the mall waving at EVERYONE!!!! and saying "hi" she is quite the attraction for sure. I love the code words white folks use for I'm cool with you....and you know....kiddo. Like "I like her hair!" "what cute shoes, they look so good on HER feet!" "I wish I were that tan" to name a few. All of which I really don't take too much offense to because in the two days we were at the mall we saw only ONE black family and the mom touched Ari's feet and said how beautiful she was :-) Black people code for: I'm cool with you and your kiddo....smile. So we go to the play area today.....kiddo is awesome. All the little blonde nymphys ran and floated and after a few moments of watching, Aria ran and floated too.....however I don't think she has been around so many fair haired people and she really took a minute to soak them all in before engaging. One child came up and patted her head, so Aria returned the favor later by patting hers :-) Funny what kids do. Anyway there were a few boys that were rough housing and running around. Now....did I mention my kiddo has a strong mind???! She was trying really hard to get into a car that was too big for her. I helped her in a few times and noticed that she did it once by herself before I could hold her hand. So I wanted to encourage her to try by herself. So that's what she was doing when the 4 year old hooligans showed up and jumped in the car that Aria was still trying to get into. I figured everyone is playing, there is plenty of room for Aria in the car, I'll let her keep on keepin' on!! So they pushed her off. I was about to intervieve, but she brushed herself off and went back to the task at hand. When they told her it was "their car" she stood her ground and didn't budge (did I tell you that my kidd is a ROCK STAR!) and continued to get into the car. They then began yelling at her and telling her that it was "their car" I was watching out of the corner of my eye while the lady beside me told me that "She loved my daughter's hair" thanks....lady. And Aria was pressin' on. I didn't want to jump in, cause Aria was handling the situation well and she didn't seem phased, so I wanted to just watch, cause while I want a beautiful sensitive kid, she needs to have a bit of guts as well (something I didn't get till much later in life) as it will help her in the long run not to have her mother rushing it at the slightest sign of trouble, I want her to feel like she can handle things herself. Well one kid started to point his finger at her in the form of a gun and started shooting at her. Aria looked at him confused. My ears were perked and I watched him DO IT AGAIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I was in shock. The mommie who "likes Aria's hair" told me she didn't like the way that was making her feel. I told her that I didn't either and I got up (he has "shot" at her about 5 or 6 more times) I gently pulled him out of the car, got down to his level and told him that "I don't like the way you are treating my daughter and don't like the way it is making me feel and I assumed that she doesn't either, please stop shooting at my daughter." Well within a flash, fake blonde, fake nail, paint on pant clad OC mom flashes in like lightning. "What are you saying to my son???....Is there a problem" I told her that he was making a gun with his fingers and shooting at my daughter I told her I didn't like the way it felt....yada yada. To which she answers! "YOU HAVE A PROBLEM and YOU DIDN'T LIKE THE WAY IT FELT??????" I retort. "Yes I don't want anyone pretending to SHOOT MY CHILD.....(side note B!TCH the only AA kid here!) "Well that is YOUR PROBLEM!" I then responded that "NO it was yours!" Thinking that she raised a son who wanted to inflict pretend violence on a one year old and that he lacked empathy and compassion in a play area that was restricted to kids 4 and under, as her son barely makes the cuttoff AND that is NOT acceptable behavior, AND my one year old DOES UNDERSTAND WHAT HE IS DOING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! She removed her child and told him.....(grrrr!) "she's just over reacting, play over here where the people are not so OVERSENSITIVE!" YOUR FREAKISH FOUR YEAR OLD just shot my kid lady.....no wonder he's so messed up....forget saving up for college....just put aside bail money b!tch! Ok....ugly rant over.....whew....that felt good :-)