I have 2 Girl Foster Children and a 6 year bio grand FC. One of the Fc is 12 and the other 10. The 10 year old goes away every weekend for visits with her parents and the 12 year old stays in her ro...
I have 2 Girl Foster Children and a 6 year bio grand FC. One of the Fc is 12 and the other 10. The 10 year old goes away every weekend for visits with her parents and the 12 year old stays in her room with the door shut all day. Each has their own room. The 10 year old is family oriented and I have a ok relationship with. The 12 year old doesn’t get visits and is very reclusive. She creeps around the house late hours (2am-3am) . She has said remarks about my grand daughter who is 6 irritating her and my grand daughter recently caught her putting urine in her dollhouse tub. I confronted her about it and she had no answer. I recently decided to move the 2 to the same room and when I was cleaning out the 12 year old room I saw a lot of sharp objects ( needles and pins) and lighters. I spoke over this with my grown bio child and she told me to check the 12 year old wrist. Today when the 12 year old came from school I checked her wrist and they were cut up. She’s a cutter. Not deep but had cuts. I had no idea. Tonight my bio child woke me up and said the 12 year old was wondering the house (3am) but I sleep hard. I really want to help the 12 year old out but I am putting the other kids at risk? Ps. My butcher knife went missing and just reappeared. Can I help this child. Ps we have no relationship (me and 12 year old) so she tells me nothing. And also now she shares a room with the 10 year old Fc and she can’t lock herself in the bedroom she spends long time in the bathroom.what should I do? This is only my 5th FC. I tried to call the CW but she dodged the call. I have a feeling she knew.