After adoption and records revealed later on

Originally Posted By AnnThe adoptive children were exihibiting strange behaviors. When I called in to question, I did not get answers, however, after the finalization, I received a certified package with information about one child's history in a facility for extreme behavior problems, and information about the child's upper airway repiratory disease, an hospital record of herpes, and sickle cell traits in the family. I felt as though I was hit with a enormous amount of information which overwhelmed the family, immediately. I felt we had to separate the family within the home, and be watchful of the child's health after consulting with the doctor. I asked for help and made a fuss, but, nothing happened to ease our permanent situation. We would not have taken on these children with these added problems. This was frightening to involve our other children but we did so with precautions and educated them. We have been very unsucessful in resending the adoption. All we have received is a conflict of interest and threats of removing all children including biological children if we can't handle "our new children". We are in therapy with adoptive children, biological children are with other relatives most of the time and we are seeking help outside. I have not been able to work as I was and my husband has to work two jobs. There is much upset inside of us. The children don't even know how much problem we have been caused within our family unit. They have intensive behavior problems, are very needy and can't see past their own wants, even though they are two years older. A chronic cry out for help!