theories

Everyone has different theories and what is best for ones child... I have twin boys with autism....never have gone with ABA...or the Lovus method... My boys are doing well....When they were younger we got them on the TEACCH method...which made a big difference with my boys...Its visual (Autistic people are very visual) structured and POSITIVE. My boys will always be autistic . Thats reality....but they can also make leaps and bounds and grow and change and learn.... I myself have grown and changed and wouldn't change a thing...My boys have truley taught me patience, acceptance, unconditional love, laughter and so much more..... At times it is stressfull and you want to scream and cry.....but with "normal" kids don't you feel that way to.... God trusted each one of us with a special person in our life I happen to have an extra helping....