contact with birth mom

Well after 5 months of knowing who my birth mom is, I finally got a call from her. But let me tell you it wasn't nice. She wanted to know if I was trying to get her back and ruin her life. I was in shock. She asked what did I want from her. I said nothing, just to know who I was and where I came from. She said I was never supposed to look for her. Well at least now I know how she feels. I am a little bit angry at her attitude, but hey, I have had a great life and I have great kids. If she would have kept me things whould have been different. I really feel sorry for this woman because she is not very happy . I am sure keeping this secret from her children and husband has been hard for her. She is so afraid for them to find out. But not all reunions are bad. So don't let this discourage you. My sister just had a great reunion with her biological family. I was hoping for the same for myself.