Reasons to be Denied?

How did they find out you went to counseling (after your father died)? Was it a question in the application process?? We've completed all of our stuff, except the questionaire and the HIV quiz. I haven't gone over the questionaire yet..... What if my husband says he was spanked as a child, are they going to deny us??? :) He's such a gentle soul. I can't imagine them denying people for seeing a counselor. How weird. You'd think that was a healthy thing.....rather than not dealing with it. ??