Advice Needed

July 28, 2004

We have been working with a bmother for awhile now and seems to be getting to the end, we hope. It has been one rollercoaster after another for awhile. Does it ever get easier. She is due in October. We hope for a miracle. In the midst of all this, my husband just got baptized. Any suggestions on how to cope with a new testimony for him and an old one for me and this adoption.

mmdd2b

July 28, 2004

I may have been to harsh on my previous note. I would like to mention that I am very excited that my Husband has found what we needed in our life. I just hope that he stays excited thru all of the ups/downs of adoption until we hold our little miracle in our arms. And me, I hope I can keep up with his positive attitude and my spiritual growth as well. You can probably tell we are newly married and this is all new to me and him.

I think we are doing well, communicating with our bmother. She really is an awesome person with a great heart.

Any suggestions on how to keep everything together? Do you just throw out the litter rollercoasters and concetrate on the big ones or just let it ride and hope for the best.

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aspenhall

July 28, 2004

Mostly, peace comes from letting go and handing your life over to God. Congratulations on your hubby's baptism. I wish I had better advice. Just work on the biggest issues one at a time. before long, you'll only have small issues left.

mmdd2b

July 29, 2004

Thanks. I work out everything with my husband and we pray daily. I know things will be okay after awhile... if things start to get shaky with this adoption.

I am sure we will start laughing six months from now as we hold this new little bundle in our arms. As you can tell we are trying to keep our hopes up! :)