How important are age and bio children?

July 29, 2004

DH and I are both 45. We have 3 children (10, 8 and 4). We always wanted a larger family but are unable to have more. We would like to do a domestic adoption (either open or semi-open), but we're fearful that birthparents would be reluctant to choose us because of our ages, our children, or both. We have many things to offer (love, experience, financial stability, and of course wonderful siblings), but will these good things be overlooked? If you've placed a child, would these be things that troubled you? Thanks for your input!

BrandyHagz

July 29, 2004

Each birthmother has her own set of things she looks forfor some, age would be an issue, for others no. For some, siblings was a must, for others, it didnŒt matter.

There is an expectant mom out there who is right for you, it just may take a little longer to find herso hang in there!

For me, age wasnŒt an issue, but bio-children wasno matter what numberŅ

Good luck with your adoption :) !!

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hs3614

September 8, 2004

I'm glad to see that there are others with bio children considering adoption. I have 3 sons and a daughter of my own, but am considering adopting a baby girl so that our daughter may have a sister. Are you having any luck?

withopenarms

September 8, 2004

Hi we too have bio children and our hoping to adopt. I think age just depends on each birth mom and same with how many children , and how many. Hopefully we all find the perfect match if meant to be : )

NaomiNJaysmom

November 30, 2004

I have 2 bio children and a step daughter. I am also one of 6 children many who were adopted. I hope that these things help us and not hinder our ability to make a match. If it were me choosing, I would want my child to have siblings since I grew up in such a large family.