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sweetpeaches49
could you birthdate have been changed and do you know where u were actually born my child was born 10-16-73 adopted in tampa fla but was born in nc as well as i was do u know your birthname and any info
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i would suggest to all adoptees and birthparents if u want to find each other dont wait i was a couple months too late in finding my child found her in cemetary because of interferring adopted parents did not give her the letter her siblings wrote to her we have searched for so long and now we are left with only memories of what was and what could have been good luck to all of you
I am searching on behalf of my friend. Her father just passed and she had found out that she has another brother out there. Mother and father are from MI but her mother spent her entire pregnancy in Fl. Shes not sure if she delivered in MI or Fl but she knows that she had a baby boy sometime around 1973. She also knows that her mom named the baby johnathan... If you hane any questions you can e-mail dolphin_124@hotmail.com just put adoption in the subject
Dear beany915, You'll have a tough search but it can be done. Can your friend talk to her mother or grandparents? Adoption holds lots of emotion for everybody but I finally spoke to my son about my son that I gave for adoption because I was so young and I had this idea for all these years that it would freak him out to bad. He was actually really great about it. It was a huge relief for me. Back at that time, most birthmothers were told not to tell ANYONE about it and so we stuffed our feelings inside and felt like garbage. I will be 51 tomorrow and am still haunted by those days. I still have an empty spot and I realize how wrong and unhealthy my secret was. I deeply desire to know my son. Always have, Always will. I spend many nights up half the night searching. I think probably your friends mother went through the same thing because she was sent off to Florida. Some women don't search because they think that they will be resented or that they gave their child up so therefore don't deserve to ever know him or her. I see you have MI as the state where she was from. That would be Michigan. I don't know what the adoption laws are there but if she had her baby there it might be easier to find than Florida. Florida keeps it's records closed. You can still look, I was so blessed when someone found me and sent me a picture. Sign up at registries because he may be very well looking for his mother. Also, adoptees are protective of their adoptive mothers which is understandable. They are the parent who loved them, raised them, supported them, shared and created a life for them. They don't know what the circumstances were that made the birthmother decide on adoption. (she could be mentally unstable, a criminal, a rape victim) but that is the minority. Most were too young, forced by parents or didn't have the means to raise a child. Anyway, I wish I could help your friend. It is normal to want to find a brother. I would ask the mother about it and see what her reaction is. It won't hurt her anymore than it already hurts and hopefully they can become closer. My husband has a brother that was adopted. He is 55 years old but still does not talk to his mom about it. His mother became pregnant after her husband died by someone she was dating. She had 3 children and before she was going to give birth, she asked the the three if they would help with this baby. She was a single working mother. Two said yes and one (his sister) said no. His mom went to the hospital and came home alone and nothing was ever said again. I guess I'm rambling. Best Wishes to You! Becky
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I am a birth mother looking for daughter gave up at the time of her birth she was born in St. Petersburg Florida @ St. Anthonys Hospital. I was only 15 when I gave birth to her and looking for her You can email me if any of the above info fits you
Noreen
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