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Hi Michigan gang! I have such exciting news to share today I can hardly believe it is really true! After more than 1 year of waiting, we are matched. As I mentioned in an earlier post, we had a meeting with the potential birthmom on Friday. It went very well and she chose us. After receiving the rest of her info from her attorney, we decided today to move forward. Now we are just waiting to hear back from her attorney on what we need to do next.
So, if all goes well, we will be the proud parents of a baby girl in just a couple of months. :)
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Well, I guess I spoke too soon. The potential birthmom called this morning. She was very incoherent and confused. She didn't even realize she was talking to me. It was very disturbing! I got a really bad feeling that she is still using drugs and/or alcohol. We decided we cannot move forward with this match. Fortunately, we hadn't send our paperwork and check into her attorney. Otherwise, we would have lost the match and our money. So, we are back to waiting and planning to take a vacation to recover.
OH DEE!!!! I'm so sorry!!!I know it is hard to listen to at the moment, but you will be blessed with your baby when the time is right. And it will be worth all the wait, time, and suffering. A vacation is a much needed thing.. Have a good time and try to think of the future when you will be blessed with your child! HuggsKerri
Hey Dee! I cant tell you how sorry I am that this one fell through for you. Consider this one practice for the next one. You do truly learn something from each contact you make with a potential birthmother.After some failed matches, we started to understand a bit more about ourselves and about potential birthmothers which helped us with our entire journey.I cant wait to hear about your next match.Hang in there and enjoy your dh!Nikki
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