do yall think she is pregant?

dets wut people have been tellin me 2 do, thanx 4 da advise, she refuses 2 go til da beginnin of next month cus she thinks she's jus late and "it's gon come", but this mental torture is gonna suck 4 15 more days

i jus got off da phone wit her a few minutes ago, she refusin' to go 2 a clinic 2 get a blood test, she det sure det she's not. according 2 her and her mother (who doesnt kno she's sexually active) it's ok 2 be a little late on your periods. i guess i wnt kno til a couple of months from now if she starts gettin big :confused: this is torture 4real, i cant eat/sleep, i cant put my mind on anything else, and its affectin my work

You can't force your girlfriend but getting a blood test is the next stage so just give her a bit of space. Sorry I didn't read your first post properly so didn't read the bit where you put she already had done a test done. Pip :)

aight thanx, u have any tips on wut i should do bout this stress, cus this is messin me up mentally. i have 1 job already, but its part time, i can get another part time 2, should i?

I would say that there is a good chance that you're girlfriend does know her body and can tell that she isn't pregnant. Both times when I found out I was pregnant was from the pregnancy test in the store and then had it confirmed at the doctor's office. But even before I took the test both times, I could feel it. I knew and had a gut feeling that I was pregnant before I found out for sure with the tests. There is also the chance that your girlfriend's period is late because of stress. As for your stress and mental health, I don't have any great advice. I would say the best thing you can do is to do your best to get some rest and relax as much as you possibly can. Do some relaxation exercises or something to calm yourself down. As for getting another part time job, that decision is up to you. If you feel like you think it would be good to get another part time job and it would help you with your stress and worry, then I would say to go for it and try to get another part time job. But I wouldn't get another part time job unless you feel like that would be helpful to you and/or this situation. Hope things turn out okay for you and your gf. Good Luck and God Bless. Anne :)

I agree with everything Anne says and over getting a 2nd job only do that if you want to. Try not to stress out about the situation. Pip :)

tigger27, when u could "feel" it and knew that u were even before your tests, how far along were u?

Well, the first time I was around 8-10 wks or 2 -2 1/2 months by the time I took the pregnancy test and went to the doctor for the first appt. The second time, I was around 6-8 wks or 1 1/2 - 2 mos by the time I took the pregnancy test and went to the doctor for the first appt. The second time, I felt and knew I was pregnant a lot sooner than I had the first time. I would say that I felt and pretty much knew I was pregnant within the first two to three weeks after I had conceived the second time. That was because I had already been pregnant once and knew from experience what to look for and how it felt etc. The first time, I felt a gut feeling I was pregnant for a long time before I caved in and got the pregnancy test and went to the doctor for the first appt. I tried to deny and ignore all my feelings and symptoms that I knew pointed toward me being pregnant the first time because at that time my parents didn't know I had been sleeping with my bf (now my ex bf). At any rate, if your gf were to find out she were pregnant now, I would guess that at most she could be around 7 wks pregnant given the time frame and info you've mentioned and At the least, she could be around 4 wks pregnant. But that would only be if she were to find out she were pregnant based on the time frame you've mentioned. Try not to stress out too much. Anne :)

Take another test if it will put your mind at ease. It is highly unlikey she would get two negative results and be pregnant. My guess is she is not pregnant if you didn't engage in intercourse (not impossible to get preg but with the other signs unlikely she did), she got a period since then AND she had a negative test result. I believe you are worrying yourself silly for nothing. My first pregnancy I "knew" at about a month I was pregnant but like Anne I tried to deny that I was and finally went to the doctor at 10 weeks pregnant. However I knew long before that. My second pregnancy I knew by two weeks pregnant that I was indeed pregnant. Shell

thank u both very much, both of your comments are really putting my mind at ease, im taking her a test 2day around 11, yall pray 4 me

Hope everything turns out okay for the two of you though I agree with the others that it's probably unlikely she is pregnant as like the other two I knew I was pregnant early on. Pip :)

:) she's not! im VERY Happy. i took her 2 different tests (one had tree tests in it), she took da test 3 times, she got 3 negatives, i spent da money and got da test that says "pregnant", or "not pregnant" and it sed "not pregnant" twice (she used 2 differnt strips) then she took on that put the plus and minus, it came out minus. so that's four tests in all countin that one from the other day. all negative, so me and her are both assured and satisfied that she is not. thank yall for yall support and comments, they really helped. imma stay active on this board and maybe offer tips 2 people for thier situations.:)

Thank you for the update and good luck to you ;) . Pip :)

Maybe some birth control might be in order. D.

wel cham i thought i was pregnet waited a few days took the test and it came out positive so if she says she is not there is a good chance shes not u just have to trust her. do u know if she has been nauses at all that is one of the signs or if she has gaind wait ask her if she says no she probly is not pregnet if she says yes then most likely she is. hope this helps cassi16