All Adoptees Please Post Here!

I am too an adoptee, quite a happy one. Please could anyone explain why any adoptee goes on an egg/sperm sonar hunt? My patients are my family, the BF gave us up due to circumstances end of, we are not victims,and this searching and upsetting another family baffles me. As for identity just look in the mirror, the strangers you are perusing are just that strangers.