Plea for help regarding Ulyanovsk

We are an American couple who have been waiting for 6 months to receive a court date to return to bring our child home from Ulyanovsk. Another American couple is in the exact same situation. We were hoping to get our court date this week, but instead got more of the same sort of impossible demands from the judge. The judge is still on a mission demanding an embassy letter confirming that the children will be allowed into the US. We sent letters from Congress people and Senators explaining that this would not be a problem, but she was not impressed. If any American family has had a successful adoption in this region in the past year, would you mind sending me the name of your agency so that our agency could maybe contact you to see if there is any wisdom they could gain from how your adoption completed? We don't want to have to leave our kids behind. The judge has set a July 10th deadline for us to return paperwork meeting all of her latest demands. We have been told that her issue is that other countries submit a letter taking responsibility for the parents turning in post-placement reports, but America does not have such a policy. She feels the agencies are just in it for the money and not for the welfare of the children. Obviously she really cares about the welfare of these poor children!!! If she would only understand how desperately we love and want them! She also is objecting to the fact that our apostilles were stapled to our documents (this never came up before). She said that it is against the Hague agreement. Our agency said that this issue was worked out with all of the other regions already and should be a nonissue. Thanks for any help.