MD residents being matched through a facilitator

Hi,We live in MD. We are currently working on adopting a baby girl. We want to work with a facilitator. (We have been with an agency for over 3 years with no match).The problem is that MD won't recognize an adoption when the match is made by a faciltator. The attorney for the agency that did our home study told us that we can still use a facilitator if we find a state that will recognize facilitators and allow us to finalize in their state.The problem is that there don't seem to be many states that recognize facilitated adoptions and even those that are ok with it, many of them do not allow you to pay the facilitaor.Have any of you who reside in MD had to deal with this before and if so how?wantagirl