I am sure it's been asked a million times....

Situation back ground, and hope for a response. We are in PA, it's commonwealth. There is a coalition for the adoption process here. With that, each county is their own governing body, and you have to do this that way. For our county there is 3 places that do this, 2 of these are over worked and can not take any "new" families on. No freaking wonder there is so many kids in need of families here. Anyway!! point is....I got refered by 2 to the 3rd. Going to the 3rd, to have it all "free" and grant covered, We have to adopt over the age of 10 (not what state says). NOT what we want either. But they are THRILLED as non profit agency to do it all up front, and if you end up going out of state or under age 10, we have to pay them the 2500, instead of the state. According to the state web site the age is 5. So either the state hasn't updated the web site, or they have not informed the organization paid by the state for our county to do this, or the organization hasn't updated the common knowledge. What ever it maybe, we are family fund raising the 2500 just incase. Also state of PA maximum number of children in a home total be natural/adopt/foster is 6. Exceptions are done, and can be statement of interest for one, as home study is done. My husband and I have 13 siblings between us, we are Uncle/Aunt I think last count ws 32, and "great's" 14 times I think so far. The sibling groups accross the US, are tugging hard on our heart strings, 3 different ones. As we were in class, 2 things we exspressed, this is going to be the first of many additions to our family. This is something we have hopes in doing for many years to come, as our home has room to adopt another child or children, we plan and want to untill we are to old to do it anymore. We exspressed or interest in a sibling group that had already been split up here in PA that just devistated us, and that we wish there was organizations or people who granted money, or funded additions so that you could have enough bedrooms for more children. The instructors response was "there are a number places that do that" I asked where because I have been hunting for these places for weeks. She said "oh just do a search on the net" well I have tried and have come up empty. Local churches, business etc, are NOT options please do not suggest using these, I have also started making contacts to local businesses and construction companies etc, to do web sites, etc in exchange of "left over building supplies" wouldn't even cost them anything but the time to make a stock pile for us to pick up. I have also visited the dave thomas site, and it isn't helpful, and a few referal sites from there. So I ask to everyone please, "WHERE" are these organizations and groups that would donate the supplies? the work? or what not to accomplish adding on 2 bedrooms and 2 baths to our home, This would allow us to easily take any of the sibling groups that are out there. Crazy? probably, but it's just who we are, and this is what I would like to do and dedicate my life to till I am to old to be able to. this is what our calling in life is. So please please, if you know any organization or famous person or "what ever" Getting the exception is not a problem, the time we have spent with these folks already, we have the personality and demeanor etc. SO far they do not feel giving us an exception would NOT be an issue at all, But only if we were able to add on the needed bedrooms to facilitate the need. The rest of the house is not the "biggest" in the world, but the addition would allow for a dining area. The FULL basement has a TON of play room as it is. My husband did construction for many years, so doing 90% of the work aside from heat/plumb/elect needed is completely an option for us. Refinance, loans, etc are not an option for us at this point. Maybe a few years down the road. 2nd Funding question............. With the fact we know we are not going to meet the 10 year old requirement, There is only 2 options of young men we have looked at here, But nation wide it opens our options GREATLY. Where might their be funding to cover the 2500 fee we will need to pay this group, as well as possible travel exspenses and so forth? The rest is local, like Beds, dressers, clothing, things like that, there are 100's of local places that will assist in all of those things. If you know some famous person I could write to and say, ther is a sibling group in ohio of 4 children we would love to bring home, to do so we need to make a large addition to our home, and purchse a bigger fridge, and 2 sets of High capacity wash/dryer sets... LOL We need a passenger van as well please, Here is my estimate, would you be willing to donate or pay the bills if I have them sent to you for these items? It's just an idea but there you have it... Please anyone any suggestions let me know. My heart is bleeding, There is a sibling group in arizona of 2, there is a sibling group of 4 in Ohio that is really tugging on our hearts, If you know anyway we can get the help we need to be able to bring either of them home please please share it. Thank you, My hope is in all of your hands, as I have come up dry for weeks searching for the answers, if there is a will there is a way, and I am darn determined to figure out a way to grow our family.