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I am so excited, last week i got a call from my lawyer saying We had a finalization date for Ayden for July 10th ok i was happy then, but yesterday @ 4:29 pm she calls and im like O bwoy what happened im thinking the worst as in they had to move it back or they needed something else and she says Ms.* this is totally up to you and you don't have to agree but the judge can do your finalization next wek thurs June 7 if your available, Im thinking Lady are you kidding me do you know how long i have been waiting for this day lemme tell u exactly 2 yrs 1 month and 5 days. theres no way imma refuse it sooner than later:banana: :dance: :banana: :dance: :banana: :dance: :banana: :dance: :cheer: :clap: :cheer: :clap: im including a then n now pic of my sweet boy
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Ayden was a placement straight from the hospital, who only had one visit with his Birthmom and that was a month later and lasted less than 5 minutes. she looked at the baby and asked me what would i do if she left and never came back. i said adopt him n love him forever. and that was my last time seeing her although i gave her my home job and cell number also my moms home number which has been the same for the last 28 yrs. She never came back she only contacted me once and that was to "borrow" money i didn't lend her the money i told her that the number was supposed to be used to update on her son only, she and i would not be forming any other type of relationship outside of the baby,I was kinda upset that she didnt ask about the baby only gave me a sob story as to why she needed the money. :hissy:
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Ayden and I were so meant to be, i was out all day at the mall the day the call came for Ayden from 9am-5:30pm, walking out the mall my cellphone rings and its the caseworker who did my homestudy and she says Ms * why havent you called me is it because the baby is a boy(i had just had a babygirl for 3 wks and a aunt came forward), im like No i havent checked my messages, now we all know with fostercare if one family isn't available they keep right on calling... so she said well i have to call ACS which is the state agency and see if he is still available in the morning please be available so that i can call if he is....... the next day @ 10 am i get a call and he is still available, in the whole 2 yrs one month an 5 days Ayden had one mother child visit that lasted less than 5 minutes. So while finalization makes it official for us in my heart this has always been my foreva son....:eyebrows:
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2 more days and Ayden will finally be officially my son, im so happy, I love my son so much he's just turned 2 april 13 and if u ask him who loves you he will answer mommy and if u say no not mommy i love you hes says NO NO Mommy wuvs Ayden. when ever he is in my arms and i say I love you he grabs my cheeks and says i wuv u 2 mommy and gives me the wettest kiss it doesnt get any better than that.:male: :banana: :dance: :cheer: :clap: :happydance: