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It never dawned on me, till I read elsewhere, that this might be a freakishly odd situation.
M and her family are coming out at Christmas time for the holidays.
They intend to come out for a few days, then go back - leaving M here for a few more days/a week - then she'll go back.
So, I'm wondering - since "Santa" will be coming to our house this year for her...what kinds of things should I be looking for for her?
Keep in mind - my Christmas shopping has been done for eight months now...so this shopping in Oct/Nov (after tickets are purchased to ensure they are coming) is all new to me.
What do 12 year old girls like?
We have a fully open, very awesome open adoption. There isn't a single thing I could buy her (age apro) that her parents would disagree with...so please, go crazy!
I am thinking some clothes.
Some nail polish
Maybe an Ipod Shuffle
I also thought about taking her and getting her ears pierced (something we wanted to do while she was here a few months ago, but never got around to) then buying her some nice ear rings :)
What are your ideas?
Is she a reader? If so, I can get a list of book suggestions for her age group from my librarian friend(s). (You know me and my books.)
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NEATO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Our son's parents always asked us to "quiz" our son each year to get his wish list.Then we would decide who got what gift for him-so that he had no doubles. Too bad he always recieved some doubles anyways-lol!! Best laid plans and all-swept away by the excitement of Christmas shopping.
What about a spa day, just the two of you??? I would have been thrilled at 12 if my Mom would have thought to have a day with just us.
Or gift certificates that she can spend when you shop together.
I was also thinking a mall gift certificate that would then translate into a shopping day and she could buy whatever clothes and shoes she wants.
I like the iPod shuffle idea. I was big into music at that age (back then it was boom boxes and tapes, LOL) And Heidi's GC idea is nice too, then you could spend the day together using it, so it would be like 2 presents (clothes and a girly day together!)
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I like the earrings idea! Plus going for manicures/pedicures. Or doing your own at home, which I think at that age can be fun.
Of course, if you went somewhere, you could have HER pick out your colors! That would be fun, I think. You may come home with purple. :)
Actually, I like all the ideas mentioned on here.
That's so great that you are spending Christmas together. I love that.
Does she like to do puzzles or you both do one together?
Nail polish
Gift certificates to something near her at home and she shop when she returns
If she has a dvd player maybe a movie or two
Lip gloss
I'll keep thinking. I'm to old to remember what I liked at that age.
What would I have wanted at 12 years old...
Kirk Cameron wrapped up with a big red bow.
Yup, that should work just fine!!