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hi I'm asking for help and advice what are my options what can I do what can you do? the letters below is what I have been emailing and sending to family members please read them and get back to me ASAP thank you, Debbie
My niece needs a family she is 30 and has cerebral palsy she lost her guardian which was my dad and mom. she lives in a group home with the state she has been rapped 2 x's she has males in her house now and a girl she does not get a long with because the girl is deaf and she gets frustrated with her because she can't communicate so when she gets mad they threaten her to take her to witchatafalls, she does not need that. her mom is a felon and abuses medication so breezy can not live there. My brother is a sob thinks he is better than anyone he does not relate to breezy and can not love her like she needs and the pre trail guardian she has now is her moms friend and she is on medication too and I asked her what she was doing for the holidays she said she was going to be with her husband well what about breezy? I have fibromyagia and a back problem I can not take care of her full time but I wish they would let her come visit at least for the holidays, I live on the border of TX and ok they say it is to far. she has lost everything and they wonder why she is upset. she has her times but she is a very loving person she loves attention most of the time. my main concern is I don't think she is getting any attention she stays at home not allowed to go anywhere and when she was working she did so for free the people that work there don't play with them, not even sure she gets to eat. her stuff gets stolen and nobody will do anything but drug her when she complains. she needs help in the bathroom like getting in and out of tub and help with making sure she wipes good and changes her pads stuff in that nature. And I was told they don't do. her left side is stiff she hurts sometimes has to rest can't walk far. there is allot more to know about her than words can say just let me say one more thing the dr. said she would be a veg. and she would not make it through the night they put her in a corner and turned the light out and gave up. that was 30 yrs ago she has proved them wrong she is a miracle baby and I love her so much she deserves more than just to be locked away somewhere please some one love her and take care of her she will brighten your day and at the end of the day she will sing you to sleep. and you will have that warm feeling in your heart that she put there. I am hoping to see her leave that house by Christmas. if it is only for a day. thanks for this board , aunt Debbie
send this letter to everyone you think that might be able to help or send me there direction since I wrote this letter I had to write this one to put in my Christmas cards
letter 2
Hello, I hope this card finds you healthy and full of cheer.
We are doing ok, I guess we are having some problems, Breezy was sent to Wichita falls mental hospital. Not sure if shell be out for Christmas. She was never a merrily girl at Christmas thatҒs why shes there the blinking lights on a tree makes her mad and I guess the workers did not know that she ended up hurting a worker and the tree cut her twice. SheҒs not taking everything well, she is miserable and digressing, and dont understand why they are treating her this way. I met the staff not a very cheery bunch donҒt play or talk to her, they the state already had her pretty much in lockdown she was not able to go anywhere with anybody not even to work for free since papa died. They finally got her a guardian and she isnt working out at all which being one of kims friends I did not think she would. She needs to be with a one on one or both parents and thatҒs not going to happen with Kim. So if any one wants to or knows someone that wants to adopt a 30 yr old please call me and your local cps/dhs office not Denton she needs out of that town. Ive been online been hitting dead ends so I would appreciate the help.
All my kids and grandkids are doing good, they all are going to be here for Christmas. We love you and we hope you have a Merry and safe Christmas.
Love, Debbie
PS If possible please forward this letter to everyone that could help I heard there was this lady in Durant that would love to have her the thing is I don't know how to find her. Breezy has $ for lawyer fees and all that she also gets ssi for her expenses. please help it is killing me to see her like this thank you
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