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Hi Ladies,
Just wondered if anyone one could offer advice on how we go about preparing to adopt abroad. Its all ok at the end we want to adopt but what is our first step here in the USA, who do we first contact or do we not need to go through what you do when adopting in the USA?
We have had 3 failed ICSI's and 1 natural miracle bfp which ended in m/c so have decided that adoption is now the way to go.
We have contacts in Colombia who can sort out matching us with a baby from an orphanage in Bogot but dont know the ins and outs of what happens here in the USA? Is it obligatory to use an agency? Or would I be able to make it directly to save some money?
Is it essential to go through panels and paperwork etc or can we just bring baby back to USA with birth certificate and passport and then adopt the child in a years time? Please help?
Thanks in advance,
Ruth
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Ruth,
I tried to do an independent adoption, without help of any agency, and the US and Colombia government rejected the idea.
Go to the [URL="http://www.icbf.gov.co/Nuestros_programas/english_version.html"]ICBF website[/URL] and look for agencies in US. They will help you with all the steps you have to follow in US and in Colombia. Also, the orphanage that you are thinking to work with, sure have contacts with US agencies, they can help you select one.
I'm not sure if ICBF will allow private parties to match you with children in Colombia. They have a very well establish adoption program and private adoptions are not allowed. But of course, I can be wrong and a placement agency here in US can give you a better answer.
BTW, it is essential to go through paperwork to bring the child here. No offense, but you have to prove that you are not stealing the child from Colombia, and that you got him/her just right. Colombia and US are Hague countries that have a lot of regulations to avoid child trafficking, and that Ruth is a very good thing.
Welcome to this journey!
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Ruth, It is illegal in Colombia to have a private party match you with a child. Additionally, because Colombia is a party to the Hague Convention, you are required to use an agency in the US, and only this agency -- under ICBF rules -- can send your documents to ICBF. Private orphanages are authorized by ICBF and therefore must follow similar guidelines. If you or your husband are Colombian -- with a CEDULA. You should join the Yahoo Groups called --Colombians Adopt Colombians There is more information there. Good luck on your journey.
love the posts - very informational
The us agency costs are killing me! I know we can't discuss costs but there must be some non-profit agencies that are more interested in saving kids than $$.
I am still doing reseach on agencies.
Does anyone know where I can find pictures of what columbians look like. I heard there are all types of ethnicities and looks vary. What does that mean?
One of my friends is from columbia and she is beautiful.
Cheers!
lisafromdallas
I know we can't discuss costs but there must be some non-profit agencies that are more interested in saving kids than $$.
lisafromdallas
Does anyone know where I can find pictures of what columbians look like. I heard there are all types of ethnicities and looks vary. What does that mean?
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