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Both Fran & I have recieved pms regarding "Lovemykids94" who started this thread. [url]http://forums.adoption.com/general-adoptive-parent-support/353343-adoptive-moms-i-feel-like-babysitter-until-shes-18-a.html[/url]
I've done an ip check and nothing comes up other than herself. I'm not getting a vibe from her either way really, but we'll just see how things go.
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I do need a 2nd or 5th opinion on this thread.
[url]http://forums.adoption.com/communication-between-birth-parents-adoptive-parents/353221-our-bad-semi-open-adoption-experience-2.html#post33819212[/url]
Anyone else notice something a bit hinky on this one? I'll reserve my thoughts to see if anyone else sees what I think I see.
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I just opened up her Myspace page with my 10 year old sitting next to me! Oooops! Luckly he is paying attention to Finding Nemo on TV and not the computer!
Am I reading that correctly. She is 43 and has a 31 year old son? So if he was adopted at age 6, she would have been 18. Sounds a little suspicious!
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In her thread that Crick linked above she talks about her 31 year old son. I didn't spend any time purusing her Myspace page but I did see her mention of an autistic son. Who I don't believe is mentioned in her thread. Though at this point I feel like I need a chart to keep up with the details! :)
edited to add: I was wrong. She does mention an autistic son in her thread as well. She has four kids total according to her post.
And edited again: In her post she says she is 55.
OK I feel stupid. I responded to her before coming here. Yes. the autistic son is a different son than the 31 yr old genius/millionaire which she adopted from Hong Kong. Interesting about the age differences between the age that she posts here and the one on her myspace page. If her myspace age is her real age, there's no way an 18 yr old would be able to adopt a 6 yr old thru IA. Perhaps she's just stating a younger age on myspace to appeal to the younger crowd. Her myspace page also seems to show her as a younger woman than 55. But then, 55 is the new 43. Or something like that.
Interestingly enough, I got a pm from a member asking if this was "nicole" from paragraphein, which I guess is a blog site.
Anyway, I tried clicking on a nicole blog there but it's blocked from public view. What I did see though was another blogger commenting on a blog she really likes by a Nicole. Talks about her being a FIRSTmom and also blogs about mental illness.
What's interesting is the myspace account talks about bipolar issues.
And yes, the age thing is odd too...with the age of the 31 year old.
I addressed her as nicole in a post, but didn't get a response.;) At this point, we don't have enough to go on so it's watch for now. At the way she's posting, it'll be evident soon enough if she's a troll or not. She'll either trip up or not.
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WOW she managed to insult probably everyone involved in adoption, in that thread. From waffling about saying that her child is on her own-then saying she's going to hold her hand all the way thru it, to stating that she supports her children finding their birth parents but then writes in a later post birth mothers "(who were forced--ahem--to give up their children)" -this doesn't sound very supportive to me! And finally, that all children who have been in orphanages have serious problems, and of course...there are no forums to support someone in her situation. I think everyone in that thread tried to give her support.She's definitely either a troll, or has some major issues.
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Boy...her stories get more elaborate every time she posts. Her fish is THIIIIIISSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS Long.
I have to take my son to the doc and already running late, but when I get back I'm going to either tachy or ban her. I just now read an email post of hers when she replied to the thread I closed. In the post she refers to her dd by name. Guess what her dd's name is?
Yes...Nicole.
I don't believe a 12 year old is going to have an erotic mypage presenting herself as the author of books and how to please your man guides. I really truly doubt this woman is for real. And let's just say she is...what mother would use her dd's name on a soft porn site? So in either situation, this is not the kind of person I want on here.
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I know the show but never really watched the show. Thank you avatar fairy for changing my avatar.
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Does anyone watch 30 Rock? Because when you said soap opera all I can think of is "Generalisimo" from last weeks episode :clap: If you don't know WHAT the H I'm talking about, ignore me, but it's funny, I promise :arrow: