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Originally Posted By Christina, a lonely 15 year old girl
I'm 15, I was adopted and placed into a new home when I was one month old. I love it here, big house great parents that gives me everything, but somethings missing, I'm an only child. My birth mother my 4-year old sister, and I lived in a trailer in south carolina, before I was born my father left us, my mother coudln't take care of a baby, plus another child by herself in a tiny tralior, she had to give me up. A couple of months passed by and my birth mother still talked to my adoptive parents, telling them she found a new man, who was going to stay with her, and more great news... shes pregnant with a boy! All my life I wanted a brother, and when my adoptive mother told me I had one, I was crying... I would give anything to see my brother who is 14 now soon to be 15, and my sister Nicole should be 19, my mother's name is Darlene and her maiden name is Jackson, but I'm not sure if she re-married, if you have any information about anything please let me know, I really need them, I feel alone.
Originally Posted By Lako
You have loving parents, why do you feel so alone? You should talk to your (adoptive)parents about how your feeling alone and you want to find your siblings). I'm sure they will help you.
I hope everything works out. God Bless.
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Christina, I have 6 children and a daughter who is the same age as you, 15 and she is adopted from Korea. Please know, this is a very hard age to deal with the awareness of your adoption and I am sending a big ((hug)) to you! Our daughter is not experiencing the same feelings as you (maybe quite the opposite since we live in a small home and she has to share living space with 5 siblings!) but I do know that many, many young girls and boys adopted do feel as you. You are not alone. I also know that when you are an adult I am sure you will receive some help in pursuing your interest in finding your bio family. I am sorry your feeling so bad right now, but consider the good things you got going for you in your life right now. Many do not have even that.....
"We do not know what our future holds, but we do know who holds our future."
You take care,
Barb Burke
Mom to 6 children.