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seriously....i even posted the general reminder in another color. i thought it was pretty general, but i have to admit i was bugged when i wrote it to begin with because when i read this last line of her last post: Just need some input. If this family doesn't work out where is some websites I can find other PAP's?
i just felt like there were about to be links to agencies and solicitation for her kid. it bugged me. now when i read her response to my warning...which was just that a warning, not an accusation, and a warning for all parties, i just hear snotty teenage daughter voice....and i can't seem to respond appropriately. should i just leave it alone? i want to respond and say that warning was just as much to keep her safe as it was to remind her to adhere to the tos. but i just can't make it sound non-witchy. any advice?
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Something is bothering me about her. I live in a small town. We are big enough to have a seperate middle school/ high school. We don't have a Wal mart. Wal mart does not go into little bitty towns. Any town big enough for Wal mart to go into will have other stores. Granted when Wal Mart comes into town it runs the mom and pops all out of a small town. (we did get big enough for wal mart to consider coming in, so we as a town did a lot of research) But at least one other chain grocery store will always follow them, because there is enough anti walmart sentiment out there to support another store in town. There is just something bothering me about the whole thing. She loves him, but she hasn't been able to bond with him? It just sounds off to me. I think we should watch it. Of course maybe I am just witchy tonight too, it's been a long couple of days.
nah....little bitty towns do get wal marts. ever been to hohenwald, tn? i like to call it hole in the wall, tn. there are less than 4,000 people there. it is in the middle of nowhere.....you wouldn't even drive through there to get to somewhere else.....and they got themselves a wal mart. it is like all they have. seriously. i had to go there for foster training, and one day the trainer said she was giving us a two hour lunch break. i could have punched her, but i'm not violent like that....so instead i seriously went to the walmart for 2 hours. 1/8 of the town must've been there. there was nothing else to do there. lol.she does bother me....but it is probably because i did move when i couldn't afford it and the economy was crappy.....i did it for kids that didn't appreciate the sacrifice i was making to keep them safe, and for a daughter i am not bonded with. i did it because it was best for them. i am not one who is fast to judge people who want to disrupt, but i just feel like it really should be something BIG that you can't control.