trying for another meet

hi, my name is liz. i gave up my baby daughter for adoption in 1972. in 1999 she traced me and we met twice. it was a really bad time for me as my father was very ill. things fizzled out and i lost touch with my daughter. my father died in 2002 and then in 2004 my mum died. since then i have moved in with my oartner iain and he has supported me trying to find my daughter again. the 2 weeks ago i found her page on friends reunited and sent her a message. she got back in touch and we have been emailing each other. she has one daughter 15 (whom i knew about). she is married and has 2 little boys 7 and 5 with her husband. but i sense that there is a barrier there. i really just want to see her again. am i trying to rush things?