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[URL="http://forums.adoption.com/foster-parent-support/372710-strange-note-bio-mom.html"]http://forums.adoption.com/foster-parent-support/372710-strange-note-bio-mom.html[/URL]so someone please check in on them and make sure they are playing nicely. fwiw...i didn't see ladyj's first post as attacking...just honest(although she could have been gentler)....but i actually agree with her. her second post....iffy. but i still think she has a very valid point. i won't be offended if someone disagrees with me and deletes it. :)
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I was actually JUST reading that thread myself.
And I noticed it got hot real fast! I didnt' think ladyj's first post was attacking either. Yes, honest, and perhaps not as gentle/hand-holdy as possible, but realistic.
But I'll admit, whenever someone turns on the "if you're not going to support me then I don't want to hear it" mantra, I tend to lose sight of their side.
So I see where you're coming from and agree - but that doesn't mean we're not BOTH wrong, haha!
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