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My sons b-family has been growing increasingly distant. E-mails are not being returned, requests for visits are being ignored. i sent an e-mail asking if everything was okay and they didn't respond to it. I'm supposed to get 2 visits a year and almost a year has gone by with NOTHING :(
The only thing that has changed is I had a daughter this year. For 11 years everything was fine and now I dont know what to think. I don't want to beg and push for a relationship. This is really upsetting me and I don't know what to do.
Any advice??
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How does your son feel? Was he looking forward to the visit? Is he indifferent?
Whose role has it been to instigate visits? Always yours? Or have they asked for them?
I think I see visitation (which makes sense - every case IS different) differently than you do. I'm not "supposed to get" anything - visit-wise (maybe I read too much into the wording. if so, I appologize)
I offer to assist in DD's relationship with her mom by providing access for up to 4 times a year. It has nothing to do with me.
Its mom's job to request visits. However, when DD has stated she missed her mom, I have passed that along and assisted in getting the visit scheduled.
We are missing a visit this very weekend. Mom was to give 1 month written notice, which she did 5 weeks ago. She asked to see J when she got back from CA. She promised to contact me about exact time and location for this weekend; She has not done so.
Am I upset? Not in the least. DD doesn't miss her right now. Mom's the one missing out
I'm wondering in your son's family is in need of some distance. If he's cool with it, but knows how to find them as needed, I'd let it pass
Again, I don't know your situation. Good luck
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