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[url]http://forums.adoption.com/birthparent-support/380675-serious-vent-not-fainthearted-2.html[/url]
so the op cut and pasted a phrase she didn't like from another post...i had no idea where it came from....but the op of the quoted phrase sure did...showed up...and posted.
i would have normally edited out the statement that was copied to stop a cross thread fight...but since the person already showed up and posted, i am not sure what to do??? any ideas?
i'll be out this morning...so if it is urgent to fix it, would someone please do that? thanks!
otherwise....please help me keep an eye on it! :)
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This is NOT okay. I am so sick of people doing this sneak thing which is partly why I've been openly responding to people's posts instead of pm'ng them. I want things buckled down in this area because it's just simply RUDE.I don't like her anyway and personally I think she's a banned member/troll. I'll be watching her very carefully and if she pulls a stunt like this again, she's out.
And you know what else???? What really fricking hacked me off? Her very first sentence.No, you old bag, I did NOT pray for an ADOPTEE. Omg...seriously - she refers to her own child as nothing more than a label when she does it. My children are not labels you stupid cow.Okay...there. I'm done. Maybe.Btw..Deb - getting fingerprinted....isn't anyone wondering what the heck she did????;)
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I guess I wonder at times why we assume the worst about someone?I mean, if someone says "I believe God placed my child with me and it's meant to be", why does one assume they are also saying "And God hates my child's first mom and it wasn't meant to be?" I mean, really??In the same token, I remember bristling at natural mom way back when. And I needed to learn that it does NOT make me an UNnatural mom. I feel silly about that one now. But I assumed the worst about that one too. Tsk.
I think it's part of the way we tend to think... if a=x, then b=y. If she says you are a very good mother, what is she saying about my mothering skills. (Substitute pastor for mother and you'll know where I am emotionally right now.) If you are the "natural mother", I am the "unnatural" one. If God intended you to have this child, he's obviously punishing me. It's the kind of cause and effect reasoning that they warned you about in 8th grade English!