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I am not quite sure where this lands in the TOS. It is one of the more interesting posts I have seen here! Crick?
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interesting....but honest.i don't think it is an emom thing....i think it is human nature to like pretty things. there are studies even with children that show children prefer good looking people. there was a study done where children were exposed to 2 teachers- an uglier teacher who was a great teacher, and a prettier teacher who was not so great. overwhelmingly they said the pretty teacher was a better teacher. i don't think people like to be reminded that human beings like attractive things. but i do think it is ugly truth. (<--this from a family who was NOT being chosen. i get it. i'm overweight and i have a large family. there are many many waiting families in a much more ideal situation. i think that is reality.)i think the main reason ap's won't like this post is bc it makes ap's sound whiny. but come on! so many are! i'm whiny. just 2 weeks ago i literally called my worker and said, "i am calling to be whiny. i know there is nothing you can do, but i am freaking out and i need you to listen." she did...she was so patient with me. i'm sure she complained about me later. but i figured with the rate i pay an agency to assist me, i can call *sometimes* and whine. not everyday, but occasionally. lol. in the end, my whining actually did help me because when my worker got what i was whining about she went out of her way to get it to me FAST. thank you!anyways....all that to say...i know it will be a cat fight. but i kind of like that post.
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