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She asked me to post her story because she is not able to get on. Her story is a little different because she wasnt adopted but she found out by accident her father was not her biological father.
Her father was diagnosed with Leukemia and was dying. The doctor requested the family get tested to find a match. One by one they all were tested including my friend. The doctor not realizing he was dropping a bomb told my friend she had to a blood relative in order for there to be a match since the blood type was so rare.
He bluntly told her she was not related to him in any form. When she confronted her mother about it she said "I know" and refused to tell her who her father really was. What kind of mother would have allowed her to go through the pain of the testing if she knew she wouldnt be a match. She took it to the grave in the end and her father died as a result of not finding a match in time. She would have been the only prayer for a match if she had been his biological daughter. Her father had no other living relatives.
It destroyed my friends life and she never told her father because she knew it would destroy him too, she didnt want to take away his happiness. She feels like maybe she could have saved his life if she was his daughter and still hasnt gotten over the betrayal of her mother.
Jdox,
Sadly there are many mothers and fathers that act this way...so many...not right, never right and the impact is really hard to deal with. I don't know how many adoptees stories I have read where they find out when they are settling the affairs of their parents after they pass...imagine going through the papers and you come uponst your adoption papers.
Lies always come out.
D
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She wasnt adopted, her mother cheated on her father, its sad she had to find out like this. Her mom dangled it in front of her face that she knew he wasnt her father because of my friends blood type. She didnt want to seek him out to have a relationship she wanted to knock him out for ruining her life. Her mom had a many year relationship with this other man behind her fathers back.
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