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In a nutshell, we fell into foster parenting 8 months ago. Our FD has her permanency hearing in November (one year mark), and we have no clue as to what to expect. Here are my questions. 1. If the BP has not followed through with everything, then, what are the options for the judge? 2. If the judge decides to not continue with attempting to reunify our FD with her BF, then do we become some sort of permanent foster parents? will we be permitted to adopt her? will her BP retain any sort of rights and need to continue having visitations? 3. We would like to go away, out of state, during winter break. In a way, it could be a celebration of us getting to keep our FD, if that's how things turn out. How do we handle this, when the permanency hearing is only about 6 weeks prior to the trip? How do we go about trying to get permission for her to go on this trip, with the permanency hearing so close to it? (BTW, we have no intention of telling our FD about this trip till before we go.) I know that foster care is not a situation that is consistent from case to case, but I can't help, but want to know what to expect. On top of all of the above, we don't know how to best prepare our FD for the permanency hearing, when we are so unsure ourselves. Any advice?
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TRas
Different counties/states work different ways. But here at the permanency hearing at 12 months, the judge either reunifies the child with the parents, terminates the parents' rights (then you could be named the adoptive resource and start adoption process after an appeal period), or (in rare circumstances nowadays) gives the parents a six month extension. You should be able to talk to your child's caseworker, CASA or attorney to find out if they are recommending reunification or termination. Whatever they recommend, it will be ultimately up to the judge. But finding out will give you an idea.
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They don't TPR at the permanency hearing...they decide what is next: extension for services, reunification, or heading for TPR w/ goal of adoption by FP or relatives. It would be pretty early for them to know now which way they will file for in November. The TPR process takes a long time in most states with a year from the permanency hearing to final termination not being unlikely.
greenmama
They don't TPR at the permanency hearing...they decide what is next: extension for services, reunification, or heading for TPR w/ goal of adoption by FP or relatives. It would be pretty early for them to know now which way they will file for in November. The TPR process takes a long time in most states with a year from the permanency hearing to final termination not being unlikely.
TRas
Well it's called the Merits hearing here at 12 months -- but they do TPR at it. Here, there's a permanency hearing at 6 months to just check up on things. At that point, the child can be reunified, if they parents have done their case plan and it's safe to do . There's a subsequent permanency hearing within 4 months from that time (so at or before the 10 month mark) where CPS usually recommends TPR (if it's going that way). And then at the final hearing (which is no later than one year after DFPS becomes conservator, unless there are extraordinary circumstances for the parents to get a six months an extension) where the judge enters a final order -- either TPR or RU. Here, that final hearing is called the Merits Hearing. But it's different everywhere.
TemporaryMom
Which state are you in? I think I want to move there. What you described seems to follow the intent and guidelines of the ASFA. That experience is so far from the reality here in OH. :-(
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greenrobin
TRas, we're in TX also. we don't have merits hearings, we have permanency hearings. judges don't do TPR around here at the permanency hearings, they set trial or hearing dates. we often go the full route of more than a year. i guess it's a regional thing.
Final hearing. The driving force that dictates timely resolution of a child welfare case is the requirement that no later than one year after DFPS is named conservator (or at most an additional 180 days later if the court finds that extraordinary circumstances necessitate an extension), the court must either enter a final order or dismiss the lawsuit.
TRas
Different counties/states work different ways. But here at the permanency hearing at 12 months, the judge either reunifies the child with the parents, terminates the parents' rights (then you could be named the adoptive resource and start adoption process after an appeal period), or (in rare circumstances nowadays) gives the parents a six month extension. You should be able to talk to your child's caseworker, CASA or attorney to find out if they are recommending reunification or termination. Whatever they recommend, it will be ultimately up to the judge. But finding out will give you an idea.
soldoutforjesus
where do you live that they might 'rarely' give a 6 month extension. both our fk's have had TWO one year extensions! TWO!!
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In my state (MO) the average stay in foster care is 32 months. We don't expect any change in status until the kid hits the 18 month mark...and even then they get an extension. My last FS has been in care over 3 years (no progress on going home). My current 2 have been in care almost 6 years. The boys are beyond ready to get the heck out of care....I'm pretty sure they would let gorillas adopt them if it meant no ore case workers, therapists & court. From the time they call for a TPR hearing to finalisation of adoption is usually 12-18 months.
soupnazi
I'm pretty sure they would let gorillas adopt them if it meant no more case workers, therapists & court.
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fosternewbie2010
In a nutshell, we fell into foster parenting 8 months ago. Our FD has her permanency hearing in November (one year mark), and we have no clue as to what to expect. Here are my questions. 1. If the BP has not followed through with everything, then, what are the options for the judge? 2. If the judge decides to not continue with attempting to reunify our FD with her BF, then do we become some sort of permanent foster parents? will we be permitted to adopt her? will her BP retain any sort of rights and need to continue having visitations? 3. We would like to go away, out of state, during winter break. In a way, it could be a celebration of us getting to keep our FD, if that's how things turn out. How do we handle this, when the permanency hearing is only about 6 weeks prior to the trip? How do we go about trying to get permission for her to go on this trip, with the permanency hearing so close to it? (BTW, we have no intention of telling our FD about this trip till before we go.) I know that foster care is not a situation that is consistent from case to case, but I can't help, but want to know what to expect. On top of all of the above, we don't know how to best prepare our FD for the permanency hearing, when we are so unsure ourselves. Any advice?