Ohio Abandonment court case!

My son did not have visits with his parents for SIX MONTHS and abandonment was never discussed. In my state, abandonment is when there is no contact with the parents and DYFS for 6 months...but the parents do not have to see the child at all. Sad, because my little baby was forced to do visits after he turned 6 months old, with people who were virtual strangers to him. He screamed the entire time, for each and every 60 minute visit. Tell me this is not traumatizing to an infant. I hope this court finding helps foster kids in your state!