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I found a post of a birthmom looking for her daughter. I matched her details and found her on facebook and I look like her and I look a lot like her other kids.
She added me as buddy on this site but never answered any of my emails. It hurts.
Why would she put herself out here but not want to even answer me?
I always craved a brother or sister and now that I know I have some I would love to talk to them.
Would it be wrong of me to contact them?:confused:
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I think she may have assumed it'd take longer to find you, and now that she's found you, she's not sure how to proceed. How long has it been since you found her? I think if she added you as a buddy on this site, if you can reach out to your siblings via this site, I think that'd be ok. I'd assume she's told them about you, or otherwise she wouldn't have added you publicly like that.
That's my impression. Anyone else?
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She had posted on here a long time ago 1999 and I found that post and responded a few months ago. I didnt find her children on here I saw them on facebook and I have a feeling they dont know about me but I may be wrong. So I would be reaching them through facebook if I do. I would hate to start a bunch of trouble for her but I would really like to know them.
I'd proceed very carefully. You don't know if she has even received your emails because her original post was 13 years ago. She may have had several email address changes since then. Is there a way you can contact her, directly, other than through this site? That's the route you should take.
Im pretty sure she got them since she made me a buddy right after I sent message on here and I sent a couple on facebook and she seems to be on there a lot. I told myself just to forget about it but every once in a while I have a urge to contact. I guess she might think Im not the right person or something or just doesnt want her family to find out. I just wish she could at least say something. I will just move on.