New here..

My birthson doesnt have a open relationship with his mother.. When he came to meet me the first time 3 years ago, his mother and sister ganged up on him after when he got home,they were very hurtful and inturn he up and left as he lived in another province without a goodbye or anything. They have not changed the way they feel 3 years later. Is there anything that I can do to help this get better for him. It is also more difficult now that there is a grandbaby in the picture, I was thinking about goin out to see him, but now I am not sure its such a good idea for me to do this... I guess I am jealous that I am not his only gramma.. too many emotions now :(