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The family she is being placed with has done foster care over 15 years and the wife TEACHES the adoption classes through the state. They are ULTRA strict and specialize in troubled teen girls! WHY could we not HAVE had them in the first place!!!!!!! Oh yeah cause she wasn't troubled, we were abusers LOL!
At least I know she won't be running wild! Hopefully she will NOT fool them!
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Blessed you will have to search my past posts and read them It's just soooo long and way too exhausting to summarize. It would be a book.
Well now they are saying it's a golden opportunity to bring her to therapy but I am not sure I even want that anymore. I guess I will try a session but I don't think it will go well. She is just always going to blame and my husband is going to be the hero. The next court date is set for May just to update the court. Our lawyer said we don't have to come but I think we need to or it looks bad and just in case the judge has questions for us about the case plan change.
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Has there been any acknowledgment of a learning curve on her side yet? Like from now on, being sure to interview teachers, other siblings, therapists, etc., before taking everything a teen says as gospel truth? Does she get how much real and true damage she caused your family by failing to do some very basic due diligence at the outset of the case?
I know you've had a few things to say to her and I think you wrote a letter too, I'm just wondering if you've gotten any real response.
Nope. The letter was for therapy not to send to her. I do not think she realizes what she has done and I think she believes I am the bad guy. I definitely have some things to say in therapy and I have a feeling it will not go well but i am willing to try. If not for me but for my husband. She friend requested me on Facebook! I did NOT accept. She would not like what I have to say and I feel anything I have to say to her will be in front of witnesses and ONLY in a therapeutic environment.