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People need to realize, trying for a foster/adopt child is very hard. I had this one child from the age 2 weeks and now he is 20 months. Yesterday the court ruled in favor of the dad having him back. This takes a lot of out of you when you want to adopt and have a child of your own. I do not have a child on my own, that's why I was going this route, but when am I going to receive my forever child? I have been waiting for 5 years for the very 1st child and that lasted for 2 months. This child for 20 months. This is not easy.
I wanted to get this out so other people would know what to expect. I am still going on with foster/adopt, but for how long, I am still not sure yet. I can not quit yet, but there will be a time to say I am done....
Sorry you are going through this. What happened to permancy after 6 or 9 months with babies this young? It's an injustice for everyone involved.
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Which area are you in? Also are you straight Count or w/ FFA?
I know anything can happen when your concurrent but w/ how broke our state is, how could the County not get TPR after 2yrs?
It is hard to understand how timelines are not followed. This cannot be of benefit to such a young child. Sorry for your loss, but thank you for informing others.
schip4650
People need to realize, trying for a foster/adopt child is very hard. I had this one child from the age 2 weeks and now he is 20 months. Yesterday the court ruled in favor of the dad having him back. This takes a lot of out of you when you want to adopt and have a child of your own. I do not have a child on my own, that's why I was going this route, but when am I going to receive my forever child? I have been waiting for 5 years for the very 1st child and that lasted for 2 months. This child for 20 months. This is not easy.
I wanted to get this out so other people would know what to expect. I am still going on with foster/adopt, but for how long, I am still not sure yet. I can not quit yet, but there will be a time to say I am done....
I feel your pain. BTDT....AND we're still waiting for our forever child.