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I got a message this week from CPS caseworker stating that she hopes after a special hearing to be able to tell me when she will bring the child to us. Is it standard procedure for CPS to bring a child to their out of state placement? I was assuming we would need to travel to pick her up.
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Well baby girl is in a group home and not with a foster family, or at least that's what I was told. We aren't actual relatives but rather the adoptive family of her bio siblings so they wouldn't have any reason to think we weren't an appropriate place or are anything like bio mom. I was sort of hoping to go pick her up just so I could ask about her routines, etc and so she and I could have a few days to work on attachment before bringing her home to three crazy brothers:-) I think I will talk to the caseworker and give her my thoughts on why I want to pick up instead of having her brought here.
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Well baby girl is in a group home and not with a foster family, or at least that's what I was told. We aren't actual relatives but rather the adoptive family of her bio siblings so they wouldn't have any reason to think we weren't an appropriate place or are anything like bio mom.
I was sort of hoping to go pick her up just so I could ask about her routines, etc and so she and I could have a few days to work on attachment before bringing her home to three crazy brothers:-)
I think I will talk to the caseworker and give her my thoughts on why I want to pick up instead of having her brought here.
I think I would tell the caseworker your concerns for a "getting to know you period" and that you'd like to meet and talk to the care givers about her routine (routine not so important) more important is likes / dislikes and general personality. Her routine will change regardless but finding out the other things that only someone who's cared for a child can tell you is invaluable.
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Got the news that the judge signed the order to move baby girl to us! DCFS has suggested that if I am willing and able that I come to TX to meet her, but then the caseworker would still fly back here with the baby and I to "ensure the baby is settling in" at our home. Seems like a waste to me, but whatever it takes to get the baby here!
Amber76
Got the news that the judge signed the order to move baby girl to us! DCFS has suggested that if I am willing and able that I come to TX to meet her, but then the caseworker would still fly back here with the baby and I to "ensure the baby is settling in" at our home. Seems like a waste to me, but whatever it takes to get the baby here!
hkolln
That is so weird to me. In our case the state I lived in overseed our daughter. The CW from the other state did not. The case was just transferred here for supervision.
Amber76
Our state will supervise after placement but apparently the sending state wants to see her safely in her new home before turning the case over to our state.
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Mommyof3ks
It is standard for Texas to take FKs to out of state placements. Our adoption worker travels all over the Us placing kids, sometimes staying up to a week for difficult kiddos just to be sure it works out.
In our transition we spent 3 weeks in the other state very close to the FP's and rented a townhouse (3 bdrs). I'm glad we were able to spend that much time instead of just picking her up and bringing her home. It gave the FP's time to see we weren't as bad as they thought and let us transition our daughter easier to us. It was also nice cause our eldest daughter (who was 13 at the time) was there too along with us during the transition.
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