What is it like to suddenly be a parent? Are we ready for toddlers?

First: In NY, only immediate family can be in the house. He'd either be considered immediate family or he'd have to go. Over 18, he'd have to be fingerprinted. Second: develop thick skin! Do as much research as possible. Love is not always enough. Trust me. Find out if the kids are in or can go into therapy. They will need it. As I think of more, I'll post again.