A lot of the time when I tell people I placed my daughter for adoption, their reactions are "oh I'm so sorry". I don't know how to respond to that. I'm not sorry. Sure, it's hard. But I am not the least bit sad or sorry that I got to carry a beautiful human, and that now I get to watch her grow up in a happy home. How do I say that without sounding rude? I know people mean well, but it grates on me sometimes.