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She was sick for months. Her husband didn't tell me either. (We were in contact for 10 years). They listed my name (and my children's) in her obituary, and someone who knows me saw it and told me.
Were they afraid I would have flown to see her and they didn't want me to? Were they afraid I'd show up at her funeral and make things awkward? I got the impression that everyone she cared about knew she was sick and they got to say their goodbyes. Not me. Her husband (who seems like a very good, kind person) doesn't seem to want continue any kind of relationship with me either. What am I missing? I feel like I messed something up, or there's something obviously wrong with me but I don't know what it is. This keeps me up at night and it's been 3 years. I appreciate any insight. Thank you