Mother of Six Children

I am a 45-year old woman who is remarried with six children. I was married for 10 years in my first marriage and have 2 sons from that marriage. I have been remarried for 7 years and I legally adopted my husband's four daughters from his previous marriage. My husband's late wife was actually one of my best friends and my college roommate. She passed 11 years ago from a Car Accident. She passed away around the time of my divorce and after a couple of months after her passing, we started to see each other. I had gotten divorced after she passed. I was so lonely after my divorce and he was lonely after her passing. We confided in each other and immediately fell in love. We were together for 4 years and then we got married. I immediately adopted the girls and they are happy with it. I am their mom. I also had the middle names changed for my identical twins. Their middle names were from her mother’s name and the other one’s middle name was her middle name. I changed that so that one of them had MY mother’s name who died from Cancer and the other one now has my Maiden Name as her middle name. The girls are 16, 14, and 12 (Identical Twins).