Could be difficult for your neice !

Originally Posted By deeI tried once before I dont think it went through he goes!! At first I said wow how lucky then it set in I think if it were my nephew whom I am very close was in a situation at 16 it would be very difficult for to be around and see his child being raised by me. I feel it would be asking alot of him to be taught of as the childs cousin on a daily basis He is well aware of our need or wish to adopt and is very close to me however I think it would be very stressful for him to deal with.However if we told him we knew of a family that would offer his child everything that he could not he would be open to that .I hope I was helpful and I'm sure you will do whats best for your family take care and best of luck on your journey from Dee