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Originally Posted By NicoleI am looking to adopt a child soon and I need some advise. I bielive that open adoption is best because the birth family/mom has a chance to get to know where her baby is being placed. If cirrcumstances come about that I was in her shoes i would want to know my baby was safe. Since all the stories you hear nowadays. The only problem I have is... Does the mother have contact after the adoption is finalized?? I would be able to handle that, its like the baby is still hers...Some help me decide.. thanks Nicole
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Originally Posted By Annadiffrent states have limits on how long a birth mother can reclaim her baby. There is always that chance that a birth mother will change her mind but that is her right and it can happen in a closed adoption too. The ammount of openess is something that you and the birth mother agree on.
Originally Posted By MarissaHi....I am a birth Mother from 7 months ago and I can't express how much you should consider this choice. A birth mother feels free because she gets to know a little. I never felt that the baby was mine..so you should feel that either. You will be creating such a bond with her that that feeling will pass and once in a while a letter to someone telling her that she/he is ok....can last forever. ITs the safest...and being open and honest will set worries free. I'm at work so I can't write much but please Email me at MBcontact@cs.com and visit my Homepage I have alot to say...Email me questions