adoption

Originally Posted By Elisha Chappelli was recently remarried. my ex-husband no long wants custody of my son. my husband want to adopt my son but i dont know how i should get started. we are both in the military aswell as my ex-husband. we do not have much money and now i am getting out of the military as well as my husband. i need to know what paper work do i need to make the adoption happen as well as a name change for my child with no extra expense to us. please let me know some information as soon as possible. i am not in monroe, north carolina. thank you very much