blonde hair, blue eyed, 1983 F adoptee

the email address for the member born in march of 1983 has changed. it is now angelicbeauty823@aol.com and i know a lot more information about bmom. MAIDEN NAME- carrie mcclureAGE AT TIME OF ADOPTION- 21PLACE OF ADOPTION- ft lauderdale, florida /plantation, flONE of 8 siblings

Does that mean that her "proper" name may be Caroline? Do you have a middle initial? I am glad to see you still searching after all this time..........I will help where/when I can. Have a great weekend!

hey tggr, im not sure as to what her proper name could be. another friend of mine said it could be carol as well. all i have to go on really right now though is carrie. but nething with the last name of mcclure i guess could be a start. she had siblings and apparently 3 other sons (not sure to the truth of that) so i know the family name is still around somewhere and that someone out there knows her. its just the thought of her not wanting to remember it therefore its insanely hard to look for her. :(

I found a Caroline Elaine McClure, located in Northport, which is north of the location you mentioned. Can you find out any additional information, such as a middle initial, or a proper first name? I would hate to give you an incorrect lead. I hope you understand.............. :)

well, im not sure of where this caroline u talk about is located but if you know of her being married or not it may not be her. however, its worth a shot bc the mcclure name is still very much alive im sure since she had brothers and other men in her family. a middle initial would make it easier but i dont know of one and i alson dont know iof a proper name. i think im leaning towards caroline though bc that is the name i have heard of from a few different people that may be a proper name for carrie. as for an incorrect lead, im so used to it by now with myself and others helping me that its not gonna break my heart right away if its not her. (i wish i knew if she was looking for me though)...i guess theres no way of telling wether or not she is looking or anyone in my family would be looking for me. almost heart breaking for that. i also have another question all though im not too sure how its going to sound once it is posted. my adoptive family told me that i shouldnt try to look for her or neone in my family bc its a sad story and i wouldnt be happy with what i found out. what does this mean??? id be more than happy to just know my heritage and background! :eek: its frustrating as all h-ll to start lokoing again. any more help is appreciated and ill try o get a hold of my birth certificate for some more information. one last Q-is it possible for the adoptive family, at time of adoption, to change the original birth certificate so that there would be no way of finding her? such as dr name, time, date, and so on? ive heard rumors and im just not too sure. an answer to this would definitely give me a clue...since my Amom was able to pull MANY strings to do certain things. thanks again. :)

gayla...where exactly was ur daughter born and adopted at? not that i was born in october but we always like to keep an eye out for people :)

how do u find out the name at birth? is it given to the baby by their birth parents, or the hospital? if known i can give u mine. and also, what if the birth parents dont give a name at birth? does that mean they dont care? if so my search is over

Well...........either family is asking you not to look for your mother, because they may think that an unknown burden is too hard for you to handle, or they are blowing smoke in your "general direction". Just as anything else in life, be prepared for the unexpected. Not knowing the type of family members that you have, it would be unfair for me or anyone, to speak against them. Stay as calm as possible.............what is meant to be, will be. As far as the altering of the birth certificate...... You were not born in the old west era, or in some absolute small town. So, I would be inclined to think that such an alteration would not be easily possible in the 1980's. Possible..................anything is possible. Probable.................highly unlikely. There are many checks and balances in today's society for such a dishonest act to occur. (one of your parents aren't like the mayor or anything......are they?) :) Just kidding! Have a great day and let us know if you find out any more info. I will keep looking in the area for you!

There are many checks and balances in today's society for such a dishonest act to occur. (one of your parents aren't like the mayor or anything......are they?) :) Just kidding! LOL....i just had to laugh at that bc actually, my dad WAS the mayor at the time of my adoption and a very well known person in my town as well as my amom who was a private attorney and also worked with many cities in broward county as city attorney etc. so the idea of things being changed are VERY likely. ugh, im frustrated today bc ive been looking for 2 wks str8 now and with nothing....someone help me!

Well................it was just "supposed" to be quick wit. I am speechless. I hope this is not an indication of the type of day I am about to proceed with.............the full moon was last week, right? :) Now you have me breathing.....and scratching my head. :) Have a great weekend! BTW - I hope it is not probable.

btw - are you still using the e-mail address posted of "angelic........"? I will send you a lead that we talked about weeks ago, but I prefer not to post the location on this page. It may not lead anywhere for you, but it is something. I am still looking, but she is "quiet". Have you found out anything new? Have a great weekend!

hey yeah im still using that email. if you find soemthing, please use it!!! lol. thanks for looking and keeping in touch. im dedicated but boy does it piss me off at times to come up with nothing!

Are you sure you were born in March. Im looking for blond hair blue eye birl was born in Clearwater Fla.

Did you ever find them after all of these years?

My name is Shelley my daughter was born with blond hair and blue eyes. I would like to know more about you. my email is shelleyelwood@yahoo.com