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I AM 33 YRS OLD AND MY HUSBAND IS 32. WE HAVE ANY EIGHT YR OLD DAUGHTER FROM MY PREVIOUS MARRIAGE. WE HAVE BEEN TRYUNG TO ADOPT FOR 5 YRS. WE HAVE BEEN RECENTLY APPROVED BY THE STATE OF OK TO ADOPT. I CAME INTO CONTACT W, A YOUNG GIRL ON MONDAY THE 14TH OF APRIL. SHE IS ELEVEN WEEKS ALONG AND DOESNT WANT TO KEEP HER BABY. LUCKILY I WAS PUT IN HER PATH AND SHE HAS AGREED TO LET MY HUSBAND AND I HAVE THE BABY AT BIRTH. I AM MEETING HER FACE TO FACE FOR THE FIRST TIME TOMORROW. I KNOW THAT SHE DOES NOT HAVE A PERMANENT PLACE TO LIVE AND SHE ALREADY HAS A 2 YR OLD FROM A PREVIOUS MARRIAGE. SHE IS CURRENTLY BOUNCING FROM THE STEP MOTHER IN LAWS HOUSE AND THE BIO DADS AUNT'S HOUSE. SHE DOES NOT HAVE A JOB OR ANY MONEY. I REALLY WANT TO HELP HER, BUT IM UNCERTAIN ON WHAT KIND OF HELP FOR THIS GIRL WOULD BE BENEFICIAL. I DONT HAVE LOT OF MONEY TO HELP HER WITH, WHICH IS WHY WE HAVE DECIDED TO TRY TO ADOPT THROUGH THE STATE. CAN ANYONE HELP ME? I AM A WRECK WITH ALL OF THE EMOTIONS RUNNING AROUND, AND TRYING TO WORRY ABOUT THE EMOTIONS THAT SHE MUST BE EXPERIENCING HERSELF. SHE SEEMS TO BE A P RETTY LEVEL HEADED GIRL, BUT IVE BEEN TOLD BY SOME OF HER PEOPLE THAT SHE IS LIVING WITH ON AND OFF THAT SHE NEEDS LOTS OF GUIDANCE. THE BIRTHMOM TOLD ME THAT SHE HAS NO INTENTIONS OF KEEPING THE BABY, THAT SHE CANT TAKE CARE OF TWO KIDS, SHE CAN BARELY TAKE CARE OF THE ONE SHE HAS. IVE ALSO BEEN REASSURED BY THE STEP MOTHER IN LAW THAT SHE HAS NO INTENTIONS OF KEEPING THE BABY. IM NOT REALLY SURE WHAT TO TALK ABOUT TOMORROW. PLEASE SOMEONE I NEED SOME ADVICE.
SINCERELY SEEKING ADVICE'
SLEEPLESS IN OKLAHOMA
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