ADOPTING AN OLDER CHILD - THE FIRST YEAR

The questions in this quiz come from Sarah M. Baker's article: https://adoption.com/adopting-an-older-child-first...

1. True or False: It's impossible for an older child to bond with a new family

True

False

2. True or False: There is a "honeymoon" stage when bringing home an older child. This is a time of peace and fun.

True

False

3. In the stages following the adoption of an older child, what is "The Reversion?"

You change your mind and the child goes back into the system

The child reverts back to an earlier stage in life - usually a stage s/he missed out on

The child is revolted by everyone in the family

None of the above

4. True or False: An older child, when adopted, may show emotions similar to those of a toddler or teenager

True

False

5. True or False: The "Rebellion Stage" usually follows the "Comfort Zone" stage

True

False

6. What are some reasons an older adopted child enters the Rebellion Stage?

The fear of loss becomes greater

They are testing you

They feel safe and are then able to express anger and other strong emotions

All of the above

7. What is the "Circle Back Around" Stage?

The child walks in endless circles

The child begins the stages all over again

The child becomes fascinated with geometry

None of the above

8. True or False: When your older adopted child acts out, you did something wrong and need to talk to an outsider to find out what it is and how to fix it.

True

False